How do you know if you are spoiling an adultbaby rotten? Well this is a subject that is still under much debate, many argue that picking a adultbaby up all the time spoils them others argue that it is not spoiling them to meet their needs by attending to them when they do cry and that their cry is a means of communication so not to be misconstrued with a form of spoiled attention getting method. So what are you ideas on the subject? Do you feel you are spoiled when an ABDLMommy picks you up when you cry? I personally think that spoiled comes into play around the adulttoddler years when a child is always given their way and never receives consequences for their actions. But I would love to hear your ideas, so be sure to share them with me over on phoneamommy forums. Mommy Sara 1 888 430 2010 Mommy Sara Specialties are : Messy diaper changes, Adult baby nurturing and coddling, adult baby spankings and discipline.