And then the day came,    when the risk to remain tight in a bud was more painful than the risk it took to Blossom.   -Anais Nin This is one of my favorite poems. Basically to me it means holding in something secret, like my ab/dl lifstyle would be more painful than risking indulging in it ,exploring it and taking the risk to be who I really am. just thought I’d share that with you all. I know some of you need to take this into consideration, Don’t be afraid to do something that makes you happy because you are afraid of what others might think. Be your big, beautiful ,babyish selves! You know you have at least one place to come where you are appreciated. Thank you Mommy Maddy for making that possible for us. Yay PhoneaMommy! Josie 1-888-430-2010